A common conundrum among Modsy customers is how to combine design styles with a significant other. (Or roommate, for that matter!) When you decide to move in together, you’re bringing two different people’s design preferences to the table—and it can feel impossible to find common ground! But we promise you this: it’s not impossible. In fact, our interior designers are experts at combining different interior design styles for a look that feels cohesive and unique.
In fact, today we’re having our designers break down the most common design struggles couples face when trying to combine styles and spaces—from how to mix together elements from different interior design styles to how to make a space flow with seemingly competing styles. Plus, our designers will offer plenty of tips for how to overcome these challenges!
The Struggle: Our Design Styles are Polar Opposites!
This is one of the most common struggles we see among Modsy customers who are moving in with a partner. It might feel impossible to design a home that merges seemingly opposite styles—but we promise you, it can be done!
The Solution: Find Common Ground
“Merging styles was actually a struggle my husband and I faced! The way we merged our styles was to find common core elements of design. With color, if we couldn’t find two or more colors we both liked, then we stuck with a neutral color palette and just added small elements that brought in one color that we each liked. For the layout, we had to agree on what was the main focus or purpose of the room and we centered our furniture layout around that. Finally, for style, we both separately collected different images on Pinterest and then brought them together.” –Sarah M., Modsy Designer
“If you’re struggling with seemingly competing styles, start simply by determining the color palette and finishes you like. This might be easier than thinking so largely about overall design styles. You probably have more common interests than you think!” –Morgan P., Modsy Designer
“Understanding style is like discovering a new recipe. Imagine you want to cook something you’ve eaten before but are not quite sure of how to make it. You’ll probably start thinking, “What ingredients I will use here? How can I create this flavor? What brings this color or texture to my food?” My suggestion is to explore your design style recipe together, just like cooking. Together, ask: “What are the main design elements we like? What are the details we like? What color are we drawn to? Make a list of elements and materials you like and dislike, and let the design tell your story.” –Marina P., Modsy Designer
The Struggle: I’m a Saver, They’re a Spender.
Budgets can be a point of contention for many couples—especially if one person is a saver and the other wants to splurge on interior design. Fortunately, our design packages are competitively priced for the budget-conscious, and we carry a multitude of brands at a variety of price points!
The Solution: Establish a Budget
“Discuss a realistic budget first—because one person might want to splurge on an item that the other doesn’t. Agreeing on a budget at the beginning of a project will save you from disagreements down the line. And it will help you figure out what pieces you’re both willing to splurge on and where you can save some money.” –Andrea S., Modsy Designer
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The Struggle: We Have Totally Different Opinions on How Our Space Should Look.
When opinions and preferences are clashing, it helps to bring in a neutral third party who can help you merge design styles, like we mentioned above. But our designers can also help you find the common ground you need to make your home design (and relationship) feel more harmonious.
The Solution: Flexibility and Compromise are Key
“One struggle I typically hear is that one person wants an uncluttered and industrial space while the other wants soft color and texture. Or that there’s a favorite chair that we have to work into a new design, which often presents an aesthetics challenge. I always like to remind couples that compromise is key! If you and your partner are both willing to give a little, then it makes the process of combining your unique looks a lot simpler and with less frustration. “ –Victoria M., Modsy Designer
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“Allowing for some flexibility in either finish or silhouette can help meld two styles, as well as allowing each person to have a vignette that might be more tailored to their personal style.” –Brielle M., Modsy Designer
The Struggle: We Can’t Agree on a Color Scheme!
Color in interior design is a major form of self-expression. So, it can be challenging when two people have two very different viewpoints on how to express themselves through color. But that doesn’t mean that one person has to give up all their preferences while the other person gets everything they want.
The Solution: Go Neutral With Your Foundational Pieces
“Pick more neutral bases (sofas, bed frames, tables, etc.) and play around with different styles when it comes to decor and accessories. It can be really fun to mix and match styles to create an eclectic space, but using smaller decorative allows you to be more flexible and stops you from committing strongly to one style or the other. Plus, this helps make sure both partners’ styles are represented in the space.” –Mina K., Modsy Designer
The Struggle: I Have Strong Opinions on Design—But I Want to Make Sure My Partner Still Feels Represented.
When one partner has all the opinions, it would be easy to design a space that solely relies on their design preferences. But including small pieces of your partner’s interests—even if they haven’t asked to be included—is a great way to create a home, you both love.
The Solution: Pull Inspiration from Outside of Your Home
“I’ll often ask if they have a favorite restaurant or boutique hotel that they both really like, and take inspiration from the interior design of those spaces, so they both feel represented. Or I’ll ask if each partner has a hobby or favorite sports team that we can incorporate into the design. That way, even even if there’s more color than one person would like, it’s the color of their favorite team. Or, if one partner loves to sail or go hiking, we can find artwork and decor that’s representative of those interests. It’s a way for each partner to feel represented.” –Hope C., Modsy Designer